Lady Balls - Part 2


Here is a  story from a friend Jessica:

Ben Wah Balls (the common name), or Pleasure Balls are a very special sex toys for women that have been around for centuries. Originating in Asia, these balls were invented to help women control there vaginal elasticity and aided women who had urinary troubles. This worked by slipping one ball into the vagina, and the woman had to hold it in by squeezing her vaginal muscles all day. Today, pleasure balls have combined ancient traditions with modern style, and are now several balls on a string for easy removal.

 

Now days, these balls are continued to be used for aiding women with control problems, but they are also used for stimulating women and preparing them for sex. Pleasure balls are not intended to bring a woman to orgasm, but rather to tease a woman, and keep her aroused all day. They insert into the vagina and dance around inside her, teasing her and allowing her to feel slightly stimulated for the duration of the wear.

 

Pleasure balls can be used for Kegel exercises, which are exercises that help women control their vaginal muscles, again by slipping them inside the vagina, and holding them in. This squeezing motion works out the vaginal muscles by contracting and relaxing them, and just like working out any other muscles, this will help strengthen and tone these specific muscles, allowing women to control their urinary problems and to tighten their muscles after having children. Women do not practice Kegel exercises only for medical reasons, a lot of women practice this ritual to tighten their vaginal muscles, which will make them feel tighter and more pleasure during sex.

 

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For beginners, larger, lighter pleasure ball sex toys should be worn. This will prove to be easier to hold in without them dropping out. Materials like plastic and Cyberskin coated plastic at a diameter of about 1 1/2 to 2 inches should also be used for first timers. Start with this size and material, and then after approximately 2 weeks, move to a smaller diameter and a heavier material. As you build up your muscles, you will eventually be able to hold in 1/2 inch diameter balls made from materials like a heavy metal. If you attempt to jump right into metal balls, they will most certainly fall out. This is not a good idea to try if you are going out to the shop; how embarrassing would it be if you sneezed or coughed and a small metal ball rolls down your pant leg and across the floor?

 

As silly as it seems, a great way to remove pleasure balls that are not connected by a string is simply by coughing, sneezing or jumping up and down! This will let them drop out of you, and then you can wash them off.

 

A great new twist they have done to make pleasure balls that much more pleasurable is making them duo-tone. These duo-tone balls are large, hollow balls, usually made from plastic with a smaller, usually metal, weighted ball inside. This allows the balls to vibrate on their own, so it’s like having a wireless, no batteries required vibrating female sex toy that is private, personal and discreet! These duo tone pleasure balls are very popular amongst women, beginners and experts alike.

 

The duo-tone pleasure balls are used more for sexual stimulation then vaginal exercise. These sex toys vibrate on their own by your movements. As you walk, the smaller balls move inside the larger balls and massage the inner walls of your vagina, creating sexual arousal. They are adult toys not used to achieve orgasm but to excite the sexual response and get you in the mood for sex.



Hysteria – for Men


Female sexuality has always been a hot topic. Theories like “does the g-spot really exist” and “how to give a woman an orgasm” have always been intriguing mysteries. Even with women’s kinkier needs like strap-on dildos have been a new fad. Look through www.theadulttoyshop.com and you’ll get the general idea. In the 19th century, Female Hysteria (an actual term) was a popular medical focus point, physicians would perform pelvic massage on women to help relieve symptoms which included everything from sexual dissatisfaction and insomnia to cramps and emotional mood swings.

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Men’s hysteria was never a problem, there is no medical term or equipment in the 19th century for men’s insomnia or sexual dissatisfaction. We wonder then - are men really that simple, just spank the monkey and it’s all over? Was it a sexist viewpoint that men could handle themselves without the need of “equipment” and women were delicate flowers that needed to be pollinated?

Vibrators are all over. Strap ons are one of those newer sex toys but boy oh boy, are they fun. Not really something that most couples would consider, it’s really a good ride. It is kind of a mind fu** becuase you are thrusting with the same motion of sex only with a different feel in the vagina. It’s kind of fun trying this new thing, like getting your man to use a dildo on you except this time he is doing the thrusting back and forth. Very cool, totally worth a try.

hysIt’s important for men to take their sexuality seriously, especially in this day where everyone’s girlfriend has a vibrator that easily rivals lovemaking! Not to say a real woman is never in the cards again, but if you have a pocket pussy then you don’t need to worry about wooing one, it’s literally a bed buddy under your bed. Get yourself into the current age, women have vibrators stashed everywhere it’s time for men to take their own pleasure into their hands (no pun intended) and get with the program of better masturbation. You’re worth it.



Pelvic Floor Strengthening Balls


Several centuries ago, women in the orient were introduced to a small set of weighted metal balls that were inserted into the vagina. The heavy weight of the balls acted with gravity to force them downwards and the muscles in the pelvis has to work harder to keep them in – thus exercising the muscles in the pelvis.

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The affect if this was better sexual enjoyment, a strong muscle will clench harder thus resulting in more pleasure for the woman. Another effect was better urinary bladder control, almost solution to incontinence as the muscles can hold the urinary tract closed preventing leaks. Another benefit was sexual enjoyment for the man – he would feel the balls rolling about as he penetrated the vagina.

Bringing the couples closer on an intimate level as they cab she extra joy together in the bedroom. If you are interested in knowing more about these small vaginal devices, visit online for the list if products which pertain to this style is strengthening. Further more you can find larger balls that are hollow these styles are more for sexual pleasure, they don’t even need to be used during sex, the feeling of self vibrating inside the vagina will create natural lubrication and help the woman get in the mood for love a pleasure heightened sensation that carries over into the next sexual encounter and makes it for fun for both partners involved.



Liberate the Libido


Since winter is coming and we don’t really want to do outside anymore (up here in the snowy north anyway) it’s time to bunker down with your lover. Make sure to add more sexy things to your bedside table!

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I’ve also got another tip. If performance anxiety or erectile dysfunction has got you down, I suggest a penis pump to get everything “up” again. No pun intended but the reality is that as this generation gets older, men have problems with erections, It’s nothing shameful in fact it’s way more common then we would ever know it’s just that guys don’t talk about libido problems. Read up on what a penile vacuum pump does for erectile dysfunction and then you an make your decisions on if this is a suitable solution for your sex life. maybe a chat with your physician can help you devise a plan to get your love life on track again.



Have some sexy fun with Jessica!


Jessica is a very naughty girl over in the city of Oxford in England. A student by day she spends the evenings, weekends and vacations having plenty of sexy fun, and what’s even better, she loves to write about her experiences and use her vivid imagination to create wonderfully explicit stories.

Her writing covers lesbianism, bondage, male-female encounters and much more. There’s also poetry on erotic topics and most recently she has begun to blog about her weekly sexual experiences. This girl doesn’t hold back, everything is in graphic detail and is guaranteed to get you wet and steamy and ready to give your partner the night of their lives!

Jessica is also willing to collaborate with other writers and has just completed an article with a male friend in the USA. ‘Mike and Jenny’ looks to be the start of many adventures for the two newly created characters and might easily end up as a bestselling erotic book! If you fancy writing with Jessica or would like her to write you a personal story using your own ideas, just email her. She doesn’t bite…unless you want her too!

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Sex Practices Across the Pond


Adults in other parts of the world have different sex terms and practices then here in North America. Even though we are only across by an ocean and a speedy 5 hour plane ride away, the sex practice there is like a world away from here in the USA.

Dogging - A popular concept in the UK. It means that men watch couples having sex or performing sex acts together outdoors. The term originates from when the men were caught, they would claim they are walking the dog, hence the name Dogging.

Across the pond in the USA, the closest term is voyeur, but that term is used more loosely because a voyeur means that they like to look at women, it does not necessarily mean a couple. It also does not necessarily mean that they like to watch couples have sex outdoors, but that they are peeking at them. Doggers know they are being watched and they perform more.

Also the the USA, you can’t have a voyeur without an exhibitionist. It can be the couple having sex in the park, the woman sunbathing topless, or even the women who changes her clothes in her apartment without closing the blinds first, she’s just asking for someone to look in. You need both in order for them to work together.

Why is this such a common activity in the UK and not here like vibrators? I’m not sure exactly but it’s been around since the 70’s so the term has had many generations to migrate this way but it has not as of yet. I guess that’s the difference between the British and Americans, we like to peek, they like to know they are being watched, but of course it’s a generalization and that’s not necessarily the case.

The British probably wonder why we like to peek, they seem it to be more fun if they couple is performing. Maybe when you take a trip across the pond, you can look for popular dogging locations and dabble in their popular sex act for yourself. But remember, when the cops come by, you’re walking the dog!



Dear Sexy Lexie


Ms. Chase packs a punch with this steamy, sheet melting romance. Lexie and Tyler’s relationship will turn the readers on their ears as the story unfolds. Dear Sexy Lexie is an awesome read and should not be missed. Ms. Chase gives the readers what they want and so much more. You cannot ask for a better read, when you pick up Dear Sexy Lexie.



Sex Date Personals - No strings adult sex


As the cold miserable winter gives way to spring, the floral and fauna starts coming alive, so do we the humans. Our winter coats gives way to nice sexy clothing, tantalizing legs and cleavages starts to appear everywhere we look, this leads to the though of sex coming to the forefront of the mind more often.

You can find a sex partner the traditional way; by chatting a woman up, the only problem is that if you make you real intentions know, you may get a slap on the face. One website created just to bring men and women together for sex without any strings at all is Free adult dating site Very Naughty.

One of the things that sets Very Naughty aside from other adult dating sites is the fact that membership for women is completely free of charge, this ensure we have a good men to women ration in our membership. Not only that, we put women in control so that they feel safe and comfortable using Very Naughty with features such as women being the only one who can initiate a chat, women can send a message to up to 400 local men at a time and other great features.

Without our men, the site is not completed so we make men using Very Naughty welcomed. Basic registration and the upload of your profile is free, we have great UK based customer services and have have promotion such as buy one month and get a second month free. You can pay for your membership using credit card, debit card or even your mobile phone.

If you are looking for no string attached sex and other adult dating action, Very Naughty Dates is the place to be.



Sex in a hot tub


Sitting in a hot tub of water with the temperature hot and lazy, steam rising from the water, glistening over your face, sexy bikinis, sexy 6 packs. It’s no wonder why the hot tub is a place for kinky rendezvous and erotic moments. It’s torn down the middle if it’s a safe place to have sex or not.

Your high school teachers will tell young that you can get pregnant by shaving sex in a hot tub but if you read any pregnancy or baby making forum online, they will tell you to avoid hot tubs because it’ll ruin your chances of conceiving. The truth is that there is virtually no chance that you’ll get pregnant having sex in a hot tub. the heat kills the sperm and not only the sperm in the testicles and the ejaculate in the vagina, but it even kills sperm in the making. Bring in a waterproof vibrator instead.

It won’t happen so here is a great point for sex in a hot tub is that you won;t get pregnant. Myself and every doctor you’ll ever hear that talks on the subject will protect their asses and advise you not to have unprotected sex because there is a chance that it could happen. It’s highly unlikely but incase it does happen, we don’t want to get our asses sued.

On the contrary, you should never have unprotected sex with partners because you don’t want to catch an STD, and those don’t get killed by heat so you can catch anything in the hot tub.

Another con for sex in a hot tub is that the chemicals used to sterilizing the water, like chlorine can cause vaginal irritations an upset the PH balance in the vagina and maybe it can cause a yeast infection or some other infection. By thrusting a penis into the vagina, it pushes in a some water with each thrust so you can get some kind of irritation or infection. Sometimes in the heat of the moment, they guy is so hot and the emotion as are so strong that you’ll risk a measly little irritation for the sake of food sex. It’s whatever you choose. Personally, if the guy was Johnny Depp, I would risk an infection for him, any day!

If you want to have sex underwater, it can help to lubricate you a little bit but tit feel like it pulls on the skin and can break some of the passion. If you insist on underwater sex, my tip of the day is to use silicone lubricants because they are not water soluble which means that they don’t wash away under water so you will get the glide you need, even underwater. It’s miracle juice, it really is.



Pocket Pussy Tips


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The pocket pussy is the single most popular sex toy for men. Millions of guys have this but they usually won’t admit to it. It’s like how women use super jumbo tampons but don’t admit to that either - ok that’s a gross analogy but you get my point! It’s too taboo to have a pocket pussy. A masturbation sleeve is sort of OK but the pocket pussy not so much. Here I will give you some pocket pussy tips. You can pretend that you’re not reading this but soak up this advice so that you can get the most pleasure from your sex toy. Here is the info you need to make your penis a very happy little guy.

1.) Use lubrication
This is the single most important tip for any sex toy for women or men. Whenever you see an article about vibrators, masturbators or even sexual intercourse, the first tip is always use lube. For good reason, wetter is better. No lubricant causes friction with the material which means that your skin pulls against the material and you won;t be able to glide. It will stick and give you a rug burn like sensation. I like water based lube because it won;’t react with sex toy materials. Silicone is better but if your sex toy has silicone in it, it can cause it to melt.

2.) Hold the end closed with one hand.
This will give you a tighter feeling around the tip of your penis and it can also block off the exit hole which will create suction and will give you more sensation you’ll like. When you block off the exit hole and you thrust your penis in and out of the entry, the air will be sucked out of the tunnel and it will create a small vacuum suction which will make it feel like it’s sucking on your penis.

3.) Use it only on your tip.
If you thrust in short, fast strokes right over the end of your penis, it will feel better then if you do the whole shaft. The reason for this is that the pocket pussy usually compacts around your hand and shaft and your tip will poke out. Stimulating just the tip of your penis gives a different sensation then the whole shaft so try this and see if you like it.

4.) Get your girlfriend to use it on you.
It’s like getting the ultimate hand job. You get the visual pleasure - and this is extra kinky visual pleasure, You woman holds it on and thrusts for you. Her hand will also feel different from your hand so it makes the pocket pussy feel very different then if you were to use it yourself. Then maybe you can use a vibrator on her is she uses a pocket pussy on you,. It’s how adults play with toys and you should try this too.

I’d love to give you more satisfaction and give a huge laundry list of tips but in reality, the pocket pussy is pretty basic and men’s pleasure needs are quite basic too, but these 4 tips can make the experience feel different and better to give you some variety in the way that it feels.