Sex School

The joys of being in your early 20’s. I can ell you all about it now, I’m pushing 30 and life sure has changed. I tell all you young’uns out there, enjoy the time you have because when you grow up, life changes and you lose the joy of your youth. Not that adulthood is a scary thing, it come with it’s share of fun times like life, marriage and children and full independence but the spark of your younger years will slowly fade away. When I was in the early 20’s, I’d go out to the clubs and get phone numbers, flirt with guys all night long,. get to know some of them and have some good sex fantasies. It was what Cosmo tells you to do. be fun and fearless and flirt. I was blessed with pretty looks so it was easy for me, but even an ugly friend could find success if she was confident enough.

Coming up to the 30’s though, I go to the club and there is nothing but young boys there, a 20 year old “man” to me is like a teenager. I’m into the Patrick Dempsey type of guys now and these types of men do NOT go to clubs. Most of them fish, ride ATV’s or are already married. Life changes and club guys are grimy,. Eeew, I slept with them? I was so turned on by that 10 years ago but now, they are kind of repulsive, immature and too hasty. They don’t appreciate good lovemaking like the older men do.

Enjoy your youth, don;t jump the gun and mary a club guy, they are only hood for sex, casual erotic and kinky sex. When you age, you get into the passionate sex which is whole different ball game from the regular sex you had in your younger days.

I don’t ever go to clubs anymore. Luckily I have a guy now but I don;t know what the heck I would do if I were single, where on earth do you meet your macho man? that;s a whole different topic altogether and I might not be the best advice for that type of tale because I am happy.

The point is that you should enjoy your youth. be sexy, have fun but for goodness sake, PLEASE use protection because as soon as you have a baby, your life is over and you are immediately thrust into being older and you loose you youth. I know because I have friends who had to duck out at age 22 because they got pregnant I lasted until I was about 26. they lost 4 years because they did not use a condom. Of course life is different for hem and they love their child but they also lost many years of flirty and erotic fun.

Enjoy yourself while you can becuase take it from an old gal like me - it won’t last. You’ll grown up even if you resist it, it will happen and your desires will change, just as mine did. That’s all the advice I have for the younger readers today!

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Woman need the mood to be set in order to relax enough to enjoy sex and the more relaxed they are, the more they will want to play. If you take the time to relax your women, you are in turn seducing her and she will be much more likely to agree to try something new, if that’s your goal. You can’t use it like a pocket pussy. If you are simply trying to have sex with her for the first time, you can use the same technique. This technique is also good if you want her to try something new, like anal sex for example. It does not matter if it’s first time sex or something very kinky, you need to approach it in the same way. Woman like tenderness and being loved so all you need to do is crack open a bottle of massage oil and follows these simple tips and you’ll have her melted in your hands in no time at all.


First you want to get a good quality massage oil. Some cheap brands are so full of sugar, they will leave her sticky and although that might your intention later, it’s not what you want to so now! Massage oil sticky is a big turn off. She will not want to have sex with you, all she will want to do is take a shower!

Show her that massage oil and tell her you want to help her relax and make her feel nice. Take her shirt off and get her to lay on her tummy. Put some on your hands and rub them together to warm it up, she will appreciate that instead of pouring a cold liquid directly on her back. Once you’ve warmed it up, rub circles over her shoulders and down her back on either side of her spine. Put pressure with your fingertips, actually try and go a good job becuase she will notice the difference between half ass job and a professional massage.

You can gradually rube near her boobs, tickler her playfully and act innocent. As you approach her boobs, she will start to get a little moist between the legs, it’s just a natural response. You’ll want to turn her on without actual sexual contact and she will enjoy what you are trying to do.
The rest is up to you, read her response and see how she react to your touch,. You will be able to judge if she likes it and how far you should go. Go slowly but after a while you’ll get your prize!

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During foreplay, men say some things that women just don’t want to hear. The following article has some advice on what to say - and what NOT to say while enjoying intimacy of any kind with a woman.

1.) “Do you like how that feels?” - don’t say that.
When you as this you are obvious looking for a truthful response, but when you are totally missing her clit and rubbing left of her pussy lip while you look at her with a boyish smile and lots of eagerness in your eyes - do you really think she’s going to tell you truth at this tine? Of course not, she will say yes no matter what you’re doing!
Women don’t like to disappoint you or to crush your ego and women know how sensitive a man’s ego is. They will lie to you and pretend that it feels good instead of crushing your sexual emotions with the harsh truth.
This is what you should say that will get the best response:

2.) “Guide my fingers/tongue where you like it the most.” - do say that.
That’s how you should ask her if she like what you are doing. This way there is absolutely no rejection at all. If she likes it a little to the right, she will move your fingers over to the spot she wants. You can know exactly the pressure when she presses or lightly puts your fingers on her hot spot.

3.) “My old girlfriend liked anal, maybe you will too” - don’t say that.
This line could be used in so many ways, regardless of what you’re trying to get her to do, never ever compare or even mention another girl. EVER. She doesn’t care and doesn’t want to hear it. So what is your ex fell in love with you because you showed her the best an anal sex pleasure? She does not car and in fact, it will make her damn jealous that you are thinking of another woman whole fooling around with her. This will be exactly what she thinks so don’t say that.

4.) “I read an article in am magazine about anal sex, maybe you’ll like to try” - do say that.
By saying this, you’re referring to a magazine article that you read, This shows her that you’re making conscious effort to be great lover. You are doing your research and you wan to please her so she will be more accepting of your ideas. If she asks what magazine, say Maxim. Don’t ever say playboy because this will show a jealous response, Maxim is not as bad as playboy and women know well that there are really good articles about sex so a maxim reader is usually a good lover.

Try changing these simple sentences and see what sort of response you’ll get. She may be more open to your kinky ideas and will be happier with you in bed and remember when she’s happy, you’re happy!

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I came across this resource for lots and lots of porn. Good porn too with thumbnails that explode in size so you don’t have to sift through and strain your eyes by looking at teeny pictures. You can get exactly what you want quickly and easily. Get the teasers and easily download the rest of the movie. You can even download full DVD’s directly to your computer. No walking into a porn shop to embarrass yourself. No need to order a DVD online and wait for it to be mailed. Get pleasure now. When you want it! There is a porntube right on site so you can browse there. Bring your partner and act out what you see on screen. It’s a fun thing to do with your partner.

There’s tons of niches to choose form so whatever your pleasure at that moment you can get the stimulation you desire. If you change your mind and decide to get a little more interactive, you can click onto the live web cams section and have a lady perform just for you. There are huge thumbnail previews again for the webcam section and lots of pages full of every type of girl you could want.

I like the porn galleries page where you can get the teaser description and the style of gallery and click away to find erotica about fetishes, teens, Japanese or mature, juts to name a few. Check out the site, it;s nicely laid out, clean, fresh and easy to navigate.

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Hey couples! Here’s something new to try. It’s a sexual position but there are so many ways to make it different that it’s the position with variety! Usually, this takes place on a bed, but you can do it next to a wall on the floor or in a hallway. If you look at the picture I drew, the green ovals are pillows! It’s pretty self explanatory about how to do this position. It’s girl on tip sex but the man is not totally flat. He is propped up with some pillows. This makes his pelvis like a seat that is concave you san sit there and not fall to the side.

The girl uses her hands to thrust herself up and down. Try putting your hands on the inside of his legs, it will give you some extra lift. This allows his legs to spread which gives you deeper penetration too so it feels better for both of you. Don’t press on his knees because you will hurt them as you thrust away. You man can bed at the knees and you can rest your hands on his thighs if he’s strong enough to support you.

He can place his hands behind his head and just plain ol’ enjoy the view. It’s like getting a lap dance but with sex. The lady can wiggle a bit to tease him even more. Be really nasty and pretend like your a porn star with exaggerated facial movements and bends of the back It will be fun!

Here’s how you can make this sexual position different. Try holding a vibrating bullet to your clitoris. Either you can hold it or he can but I recommend the lady holding it because you know your pressure point and that right place. You can orgasm quickly and he will just sit there and watch you cum on top of him! You can move around like he’s a dildo with a suction cup on the bottom.

Another thing to try is wear a wireless vibrator. This is better for some because it prevents your back front twisting which is what happened when you try to hold the vibrating bullet over your clit and the other hand is behind your back, moving your body up and down on his penis. The wireless bullet is totally hands free and gives you clit pleasure. There is also a certain mystique from wearing a strap on sex toy during sex, it will make both of you feel oh so naughty.

He can also play with your boobs if he’s a boob man. Gosh there are so many ways to make this sex position exciting, it can feel new every time. Ok try my sex position and you’ll love it, I promise!

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My favorite way to spend some time alone is to go camping. There is no better way to get to know the real person inside then when yo are thrust away from civilization with only some camping gear, a few bottles of booze and you and your desired partner.

You have to approach it in a human study sort of way because you can learn allot about the other person, beginning right at the start. Pick your campsite. You can see what type of weekend you desire by the spot you choose. If it’s a secluded spot surrounded by trees in the corner - well it’s quite suggestive of some good “alone” time. If you choose a spot in the open, near others with six packs out on the table, you’re in for a party weekend. Right there you can see what your new mate prefers, intimacy or parties.

Setting up the tent is a good indicator. If they know exactly how it sets up and they can do it quickly, you know you have a handy man on your hands. An avid camper is a nature lover and this translates into a down-to-earth type personality.

If they can’t do it or complain about dirt under their fingernails, you know for sure that underneath the facade, there really is a metro sexual!

The next text is the survivor test. Can they start a fire? Do they remember boy scout training? A man needs to be able to start a fire - but that’s just my opinion. Watch how they handle it. Manly man treat the fire as his baby and gets proud of himself when it flares up. He is trying to impress you, he wants to wow you with his abilities.

The next step is the activities you will do. Does he want to sit and drink beer all day? Dies he want to char with you? Maybe he might suggest a walk where you can walk hand in hand. If he suggests a hike, you know for sure he’s the woodsy type. If he suggest fishing, he has the manly instinct of the hunter. If he wants to play frisbee, he’s young at heart, active and likes to have fun.

At nightfall, you can see his intentions. Do you cook marshmallows and share secrets before you go into the tent for a night of erotic lovemaking or do you skip the talk and go right to the sex? Does he pull out a sex toy in the heat of passion? If so, he’s a Cassanova lover and you’re in for a sexual treat!

Do you enjoy some foreplay, then go back out to the fire to let the mood heighten to have sex later? his means he can wait and he understands the joy of prolonged tantric sex - also he’s very into you, not just in a sexual way, but he wants to get to know the essence of you.

Do you see now what a study camping is? You have to read between the lines and you can learn so much about your new man. I suggest that all couples go camping within the forts three dates. It’s the best way to see what kind of man he really is.

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Men are so hard-wired for sex it’s unreal. That’s nothing to be ashamed of, you gotta properly harness these urges and please yourself somehow. I can’t really call myself an expert at male sexual satisfaction, but I am a creative girl so I can offer some good ideas.

Put a theme to your porn. I guess it keeps you mentally stimulated at the same time, giving you something more to fantasize about. Think of someone’s hot wife. You can either pretend it’s a voyeur fantasy or imagine that the hot wife wants you to watch. Maybe her stock market husband is too busy to keep her company so it’s up to you to keep her happy.

If you want something a little more interactive, try checking out a phone sex directory and chatting with someone who can lead you into another realm of sexuality. You don’t need to be shy becuase they can’t see you and have no idea who you are anyway.
Don;t suffer in loneliness, get aroused and try one of my tips for a different kind of sexual experience.

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Look through a Las Vegas phone book and you’ll literally hundreds of ads for escort services, outcall massage girls and exotic or erotic dancers.

There’s one very good reason the yellow pages are overrun with the services: the girls are gorgeous and the service is top flight. In addition arranging a Vegas escort is an accepted practice in the city known as the Entertainment Capital of the World.

Vegas escorts are so much friendlier and classier than the cattle call at a topless Strip club. With a Vegas escort you get one on one personalized service from a beautiful, model type gal who’ll come direct to your room or suite and entertain you in the way Vegas is known to entertain adult audiences.

Topless, seamless, seductive dancing fully nude is the erotic nature of a Vegas outcall experience and every Vegas escort is there to do your bidding. She will strip and shower and you can watch. She will bring her own music and Strip to the beat while you watch and enjoy. This is your night and your show. You don’t have to share her with anyone else as you would in a Strip club.

With a Vegas escort, blonde, brunette, Asian or other preference she is all yours. Your escort is discreet, private, appealing and sexy and she knows her way around town, so if you want to get into a show, a club or a restaurant your escort will probably be able to help get you gain access and expedite your entry. See, it doesn’t hurt to have a knockout woman on your arm.

But up close and personal is where your escort does her best work. She will tease and please you and send your libido skyrocketing as she puts her talents on display for your eyes only in your suite.
One session and you’ll now why Vegas is best known as Sin City and why its collection of incredible escorts have a reputation for providing customers with unmatched pleasures.

Every customer wants complete adult entertainment. Every customer wants privacy and every customer wants discretion and an experience that will make them feel warm every time they recall the night. And that’s what a Vegas escort will give you.
Erotic, exotic, fair-haired or a dark eyed beauty. You can have your pick of the crop with a Vegas escort.
And the one thing she’ll never do is disappoint.

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Another day of love has come and gone. More men probably got laid in the one day, Saturday February 14th then any other day. I find it incomprehensible how men always want sex and never never seem to get it, except on Valentine’s Day. It’s not that hard to woo a woman, we are pretty easy. We like to be loved and feel useful. Tell us you care. You think that we should know but we don’t.

Women are so emotional and sensitive and men are the complete opposite so when the two are combined, there is a big gap left in between. This gap is where men and women can’t seem to connect, and in the end it can result in no sex for the guy and a confused woman.

Men are from Mars and Woman are from venus, it’s really true. One big secret about getting the love you need is to tell the women some words, they don’t even really need to be carefully selected, just simple “you look nice today” or “I love you” will suffice.

It’s top bad that romance has to be left to one day. really, the flowers are nice and the chocolates yummy, but keep the words for every day.

Here is a peep inside the mind of a lady, you know how we always want the “bad boy”? When a man dumps on the emotion too much, it makes us think that you are like a lady and we will completely loose the confidence and the lust for you. The man should be above emotion, rough and touch, a provider. It goes to caveman days.

You need to put on the words, but don’t overflow, never be more emotional then the woman. Just a subtle line every now and then will keep up the Valentine’s love and keep you happy and her satisfied!

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There are many people out there, and many of them are looking for people just like you.
So how do you get them interested in someone like you? Well, there are a few things you
can do that will definitely help your chances, and a few things you should avoid doing.

First of all, be assertive! Smiling and self confidence go a long way when attracting
others. Think about it, would you rather approach someone who is obviously happy with
themselves and smiling, or someone who looks miserable with a low self-esteem? Probably
the more confident guy or gal! Don’t go overboard, however. Just be happy with yourself
with out bragging or acting like you own the world. If you are having trouble with this,
while trying to attract wanted attention, just think about the one thing you like best
about yourself at that moment. Your hair, or your shoes or whatever, and that will get
you smiling!

Also, try not to be shy! I know it might be hard, but if you think about it, the other
person is most likely just as nervous as you are. So if you’re feeling good and got your
smile down, then why not make the first move?! Everyone loves compliments and being
noticed, and if you make the first move, chances are that will earn you some major
interest points!

Don’t be afraid of being turned down. It will happen, and it happens to everyone! Don’t
let it get to you, how were you supposed to know they were not interested? If it wasn’t
obvious, and they sent you the wrong signals, then they will surely understand, and if
anything, you’ll leave them feeling flattered. So in turn, it was a nice ego boost for
them!

Make sure you smell good! Not kidding! Scent is an important part of attraction. Boys and
girls who smell bad is not a very nice thing. It is understandable if you’ve been dancing
all night and are all hot and sweaty, you might get a little stinky, but if that is not
the case, then make sure you bathe before you  go out on the prowl. A little spritz of
perfume or cologne won’t hurt either.

Besides these few tips, I guess the best piece of advice is to be yourself! And if at first you don’t succeed, keep trying! I strongly believe there is someone out there for everyone, so be patient, and you’ll find your special someone as a sex toy booty call or for true love!

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