Sex School

I have been watching this television show called What Not To Wear on TLC. If you have never watched this show, it’s great for the fashion idiots and the fashion curious. They feature real people who dress way too basic to be noticed and hide themselves behind unflattering clothing.


The show teaches people to dress sexy and to let their feminine side show and flow. If you are a regular gal that gets no attention and you want to dress better but have no where to start, sign up for this show because it is quite the transformation. In the end, all the women are ultra sexy but not smutty. They don’ dress you like a porn star, they make you look causal and nice.


Every now and then, they feature women who are too fat to wear that and tone them down a little. Women who have big boobs and flaunt them and and that’s all they have going. It’s like these women scream, have sex with my boobies, I am a sex toyfor your play! They tone down the dress and make them actual people.
On the contrary, they also take too both ladies and make them look like women, not like tomboys.


There are a few good thing and a few bad things about the show, it is VERY superficial in the thinking that the way you look is everything. I have seen an episode where a regular woman turns into a sexy women and all of a sudden, she is getting better reviews at work, so it;s like saying that before when we was normal, she did not perform as well as if she were to dress ultra sexy.


The good and the bad, the show is very informative and I rather enjoy it so it’s worth a watch. You can feel sexier which is nice then you can flaunt your body in sexy lingerie when you are in the mood. In a way, when you dress better on the outside you feel better on the inside and you can forget your inhibitions and be sexy like you should be. A good and bad show that is worth a watch, you might learn something and be repulsed at the same time!

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This sex toy is for men and I am proud to offer all curious men this review and re-cap. It’s for both hetreo and homosexuals. Both types of men will experience equal benefit from this. The concept behind this odd looking anal sex toy is to put pressure on the prostate. It seems quite overwhelming at first glance and maybe it’s not for the faint of heart because the bulb is larger then you might be comfortable with. Add plenty of anal lube and rest assure that you get to feel the neatest sensation. The idea is for men to enjoy prostate stimulation which is essentially like a women’s g-spot. It just happens to lie within the anus about an inch or two inside facing the front. This prostate stimulator vibrates very strongly to give maximum effect because if you are going to stick something in your bum - it might as well be good!


Here is how the prostate sex toy for men works. The little fins on the bottom are meant to tease you in the same way that a woman would be teased. To be lightly fluttered in between your cheeks and behind tour scrotum is a really tantalizing experience and for many guys, the girlfriend won’t go there so with this sex toy, you can enjoy the sensation that only s mistress will give you! All joking aside, the little fins add much pleasure to the whole experience but I think the biggest reason they are there is so that you can know which direction the bulb is pointing. Try moving it about because some men report enjoying the movement inside, others like it held still. I must mention again that heterosexual men need not be worried because there is a reason that this anal toy for men is invented - it’s to give pleasure to men!


The spikes that you see are mainly for aesthetics, to make it look manly because from the point of view of the manufacturer, it’s hard to design a sex toy for men to be used anally when they are not gay. I think they did a fantastic job here. I really think that men should try it. If you are really squeamish about the whole idea, you may be better off using a slimmer plug, try to go for something curved to get the prostate stimulation you are looking for. Work your way up. Get a bottle of anal lube and try this thing. You ca use it with masturbating or during sex. It might work better with masturbation because the blunt size makes it fall out easily. It’s also wonderful during foreplay, a really kinky experience for both partners.

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Choosing a dildo can be a daunting task if you’re new to the game and not aware of the different types of dildos for yourself or yourself and partner to use. Here’s a brief explanation of the different dildos and how they can be used.


Classic dildos
The original and the best, some may argue. Classic dildos have the look and texture of a penis. They can often have balls attached and the shaft is often veined for a realistic look and feel. Materials vary from dildo to dildo, whereas some are quite firm, others can be more flexible. Dildos are sex toys which don’t vibrate, they are designed for women who like straight up penetration without the swirling, twirling and up beat features found in vibrators.


Glass dildos
The benefit of using glass dildos is they can be heated up or chilled for a different and intensifying effect! To chill the dildo it simply needs to be put in the freezer or fridge, depending on how cold you want it. And to experience the immense pleasure of a hot glass dildo, all you need to do is run hot water over it. Glass dildos are an economical product as you can use the dildo in three different ways – hot, chilled, or normal. So if you’re easily bored of a product then this is a good one to go with. And more often that not, glass dildos come in a nifty little pouch.


Double ended dildos
Double ended dildos are a versatile product – they can be used by women who would like to experience the wonders of double penetrations, or they can be used by two partners. If you’re using them for double penetration then one end goes into the anus, and the other into the vagina. This is a thoroughly thrilling experience as you’re able to experience double the pleasure and be in control of it yourself.
Double ended dildos are also popular with gay and heterosexual couples. One end goes into one person, and the other goes into the other person! It’s as simple as that! Well, sort of… Getting into a rhythm can be harder than it looks when using double ended dildos. Practise is the key! Start out slowly, if you get carried away too quickly you’re likely to slip and the dildo will come of one of you or you’ll loose your grip.

Start by sitting facing each other and using the dildo like that. Don’t be disappointed or turned off if you don’t get into a rhythm the first time, the worst thing you can do is give up! When you master double ended dildo action its thoroughly fun and enjoyable and give you something new to try in the bedroom!
Hygiene is really important when using double ended dildos – the dildo should never be inserted into one person and then into the other without completely cleaning first with specific toy cleaner.


Strap on dildos
Strap on dildo are dildos which are attached to a harness and they are worn around the waist and they can be worn by both men and women.

They are designed so women can give their female lover vaginal or anal penetration, so women can give their male lover anal penetration and so men can give their female partner double penetration! Strap ons are such a great and versatile sex toys! They are designed for people who are daring to try something new and fun in the bedroom, they provide an immense amount of pleasure for both him and her. Strap on sex is exhilarating for both men and women, and once you’ve tried it you’ll see why! More than likely after you’ve tried strap on sex you’ll be more enthused to try other exciting and kinky things in the bedroom!

These are the different types of dildos in a nutshell. Best way to find out more is to try them first hand!

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It is the most obvious thing yet easily overlooked.. The sense of smell! Smell can make or break the mood. Smell has been proven to initiate sexual response, it can trigger strong feelings or quite the opposite.
Studies have shown that scent is heightened after sex, which makes “sense” because most other senses are heightened too!
Psychologists have studied the elusive sense of scent for a long time.

Adult product manufacturers and even body care companies capitalize on this by formulating and creating sweet and erotic scents, either in the form of massage lotions, massage oils, scented candles and even scented lubricant!

The most mysterious scent is pheromones, which is a physiological thing that claims that men and women will be attracted to each other. It is said to be an aphrodisiac but there is no proof that it is a strong as it claims to be. It does promote relaxation, which is not the same as passionately ripping each others clothes off, but it does attract members of the opposite sex in the terms that it makes you relaxed, which is a start! For those who are nervous, to be relaxed around someone is the first step to sexual attraction. it’s a long shot, but it can work for some inn this type of situation!

To make sex great, always make sure that the room smells nice, you smell good. Add flavored lubrication or massage each other with flavored massage oil. The great side effect is that you can lick it off each other too! Place some scented candles around the bed. When the room smells good, it really sets the mood. More for women only because women and taught to appreciate smell and men are not, but they benefit psychologically the same.

The psychology of sex is such a complex thing that university courses are taught about it. This is only one article about sex that barely scrapes the surface of this huge and interesting topic. What should you take away from this? A great way to pick up women is to make the surroundings smell good. For women, a great way to make men relax is with pheromones. But above all, always make sure you smell good! Until the next time!

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If you have exhausted your options and are stuck being alone and can’t seem the guy for you, I’ve got 2 fabulous suggestions on how to snag the man of your dreams.

1.) Specific dating sites

There are sites that cater to specific things, like cat lovers dating sites, dog lovers dating sites, for example. I’m sure there are even obscure dating sites like punk dating sites. Check it out you might find your match. I would not put all my eggs in this basket because there is a likely chance that there are none or extremely few people who have signed up for this service, but sign up anyway, what’s the worst that can happen? Nothing at all, you never get a response. OR, you get a response and meet a man! Wow! You’ve got nothing to loose so give the specific dating sites a try.

2.) Check the astrology charts.

Even if you are a skeptic, this is worth try because just like I said above, what’s the worst that could happen? Nothing, who cares! It’s worth a try because the best that could happen is that you find a match! Astrology is not just for hippies and freaks. Many people who’s astrology signs do not describe them have another aspects like the rising sign and the moon signs that greatly impact the personality, so if you say “astrology does not work for me” then you obviously have conflicting signs that affects your sun sign. Get an astrology reading and you will see what I mean about this, it will all make sense then.

Study astrology sites and see which match is the best for you. Read through the signs and see which signs are the best for you by knowing what you want and then you can get it. If you are into more introverted people who have dreamy ideals, maybe a Pisces might suit you. Are you showy, flashy and outgoing? Do you like to talk and talk and are you into exploring every nook and cranny of life? maybe a Gemini might suit your desires and compliment your fast paced lifestyle.

Take a look into these astrology signs to see what would be the most compatible with you. Then you can ask the person “what day is your birthday” and then you can see what sign they are. If you at all worried about being labeled an a hippie, by asking what day is their birthday you will get the answer to the astrology sign question without actually asking.

Try it you’ve got nothing to lose, people have been studying astrology for many years and for good reason, now it’s your turn to figure that out!

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Valentines day is fast approaching us yet again, and perhaps getting creative and being ultra-romantic is becoming more and more difficult each year. Well don’t let your lack of creativity and the ability to wow her bring you down this year, as this article is packed full of small ideas with big potential for the making the most romantic night of the year a hit!

If your budget is small, try little things. Chocolate dipped strawberries and a bottle of wine make a superb desert after a romantic home cooked meal. Eating them in the bedroom makes it even better! Go to your nearest department store and buy her loads of fake diamond rings and bracelets, and scatter them over the bed with some sweet smelling rose petals! That is a sure fire way to get her giggling and make her feel like she is being showered in diamonds! Get some silky smooth massage oil and give her the best back, leg and arm massage she’s ever had… then perhaps sneak in a little “personal” massage down there, and feel the intensity arouse instantly!

Small things can be very romantic, and very stimulating. After all, Valentines day is about pleasing your partner, in any way! Why not give her some small sex toys, like a mini clitoral stimulator, or go all out and get her a festive, heart shaped, red colored vibrator. This will leave her breathless and ready for sex!

Lingerie is always a popular gift among women. They love to be pampered and they love to look sexy! Get her a gorgeous little number, and maybe throw in some sexy shoes! She will be very flattered and won’t have the words to thank you. There will no need for words though, once she puts it all on!

If your budget it a little bit larger, then you could always spring for a small holiday. Take her somewhere close, and stay in a hotel room for the night, or spring for the weekend. If you live by the mountains, why not take her on a skiing spree. The two of you could stay in a small cabin and sip hot chocolate in the chalet after a long day of skiing.

Maybe you live somewhere hot. Why not try a sexy picnic on the beach, with wine and the most beautiful sunset. Or you could take her to her favorite beach side restaurant and have champagne and oysters. If you do not live by a beach, be creative, and see what attractions are close by. Maybe she likes amusement parks, or maybe she likes something simple like mini putt or bowling. Any of these would make great Valentines day dates!

A sexy way of spending some quality time together would be to get a sex kit or a love kit the both of you can share. You can get love kits with fun games, sex toys, romantic tonics, feathers, and much more. Look into the options in a local novelty store, or online.

Why not make her a coupon book, filled with promises and special delights! Make one for everyday of the year, so she gets a whole 365 days of sweet treats! Ideas for coupons could be: kisses on demand for any body part all day, one dozen red roses “Just because”, a half hour foot massage, her favorite position in the bedroom whenever she wants it that day, a full body massage during her favorite girlie movie, going out to the cinema, going out to the theater, cleaning the house, taking her shopping, a new dress, running her a bubble bath… or you could get really kinky and have coupons for you being her personal slave, she can make you do anything, you have to obey her! All of these ideas will send her into a swirl of power, and you will get your reward in the bedroom!

No matter what you do for your woman this Valentines day, don’t forget the whole reason for the holiday. To love and appreciate your partner. To show her you care, and to give her all the respect and sensuality both of you deserve! This holidy goes both ways, so while you are stressing over her, she is stressing over you. No matter what happens, end the night with romance in the bedroom, and the rest of the day won’t even matter! Happy Valentines Day to you and yours!

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If you ever travel across the pond, you might notice the strong presence of sex shops and porn stores. They aren’t discreet about it either, they are blatantly obvious what’s inside.

In the USA and even Canada, sex shops are disguised as “love shops” and “passion parties”. Why is that?

As Americans, we are very behind on your sexual position, no pun intended! The British and all Europeans for that matter are not as squeamish about sex as we are. They can explore their bodies and they are not as high-strung and prudish as North Americans. Why is that? Sex is taught to be wrong and the crush teaches that masturbation is bad, but Europeans are religious too but they don’t have the inhibitions about sex that we do.

I’ve traveled to Europe and have seen sex shops on main streets with big bright signs. They are located on main streets and in plain view. Do the residents of these cities feel scared about walking it not he shops? I sat and watched at a coffee house across the street from a porn shop and watched the people come and go. I was surprised to see that some people were hesitant to walk in, they would dash quickly in and peek out the door before leaving. Others did not have a problem at all and walked in like it was a grocery store. It did not seem to be sex everywhere that I thought it would be, but obviously the people were not that scared because the sex shop was on a main busy street.

I don’t think that sex toys are illegal anywhere in Europe and I know that certain states have outlawed sex toys and “pleasure devices”, even male strippers are not allowed to thrust their pelvises because tuning on female patrons is illegal yet in these some states, it’s legal to have guns, but not vibrators. But that’s another topic all together!

It’s amazing to see the British gladly get their sex toys and pleasure themselves. Even tough they are know for not being the most beautiful people in the world, they do not have the body hang ups that Americans have. They are more confident in their appearance. In the end, I think that we have allot to learn from our neighbors across the pond. After all, the most Europeans walk around with unshaven armpits and they are not afraid to go topless, no matter what their body shape is. In the end, the moral of this story is that us Americans and eve the Canadians up north must learn to be more confident and less inhibited.

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It was on a dare from my friends, but I thought it could be fun.

We went to the local club, the meet-market of the city and I dresses drop dead sexy. My goal was to stand alone and see what kind of pick-up lines were used on me. At first I was hesitant but I was going to consider it like a human study. What kind of men were going to pick me up?

And then I came up with another idea…

This night I was going to go dressed ultra sexy, mini skirt, hair crimped and curled, sparkly blue eyeshadow, stiletto strappy shoes, white lace tube top and a wireless push-up bra. I was going to stand against the bar and see who approached me.

The following week, I was going to go basic, almost hippie like. Regular shirt, maybe a cap and pigtails or a ponytail out the back. Slightly baggy pants and running shoes. I was going to stand against the very same bar and see who approached me.

So on we go…

Here’s what happened the first night when I looked damn good:

The pick-up lines ranged from the absurd: “hey I think you took my seat” funny cuz there was no chairs there?! To the absolutely absurd: someone came up to me with a sock puppet — is that a pick up line? To attract members of the opposite sex, to attract women, you are really going to pretend that your hand is a sock puppet! Ridiculous! I do remember reading somewhere about a tip to pick up women is to use your hand as a sock puppet. Apparently women are supposed to think it’s so funny, they will agree at dance with you. Maybe so, but the only reason they agree to dance with you is out of sheer pity… trust me guys, never pretend your hand is a sock puppet!

In the end, I never met anyone interesting. Maybe I looked too desperate and all I attracted was sleezeballs who wanted a one-night stand. There were hot guys there yes, but I am not one for one-night stands and I prefer personality over looks.

Hope fully the next time I try my experiement I will meet a hot guy with a perosnality, we’ll see. I’m looking forward to the next experiement! Until then remmeber guys, do NOT try to pick up women by pretending yor hand is a sock puppet!! No No No!

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Think out of the box - and in the bedroom! Get your man a pocket pussy or male masturbator. It does not need to be explicit and hardcore like a porn star, but it can be discreet and simple. The ideal first time male sex toy is a handy masturbation sleeve. Get one that looks like a flower, it is non-intimidating and a great way to make him feel good!

If you are simply looking for other sexy ideas, let your imagination run crazy. Every man secretly wants a pocket pussy but they are too frightened if the girl won’t oblige. Please do, he needs it! This holiday season, treat your lover to a sexy gift. Surprise them with adult toys. This sex toys store has an excellent selection perfect for giving the gift of love! If you need ideas on how to introduce new sex toys into your sex life, read the handy guide and get ideas on how to prevent any unwanted reaction to your sex toys gifts! here’s an update now placed on February 26th, I just heard that sex toys are finally allowed in texas, Yipee!!! Orgams abound, every Texan should now get their sex toy guilt-free (as if there was any in the first place *wink wink*). The hottest gifts for adults remain the same through easter too, now you can get an eatser bunny - legally! Get a rabbit vibrator, I did and it was only 56 dollars and had all the features that the 100 dollar vibrators have. Great deal!

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