Lady Balls - Part 2

Here is a  story from a friend Jessica:

Ben Wah Balls (the common name), or Pleasure Balls are a very special sex toys for women that have been around for centuries. Originating in Asia, these balls were invented to help women control there vaginal elasticity and aided women who had urinary troubles. This worked by slipping one ball into the vagina, and the woman had to hold it in by squeezing her vaginal muscles all day. Today, pleasure balls have combined ancient traditions with modern style, and are now several balls on a string for easy removal.


Now days, these balls are continued to be used for aiding women with control problems, but they are also used for stimulating women and preparing them for sex. Pleasure balls are not intended to bring a woman to orgasm, but rather to tease a woman, and keep her aroused all day. They insert into the vagina and dance around inside her, teasing her and allowing her to feel slightly stimulated for the duration of the wear.


Pleasure balls can be used for Kegel exercises, which are exercises that help women control their vaginal muscles, again by slipping them inside the vagina, and holding them in. This squeezing motion works out the vaginal muscles by contracting and relaxing them, and just like working out any other muscles, this will help strengthen and tone these specific muscles, allowing women to control their urinary problems and to tighten their muscles after having children. Women do not practice Kegel exercises only for medical reasons, a lot of women practice this ritual to tighten their vaginal muscles, which will make them feel tighter and more pleasure during sex.




For beginners, larger, lighter pleasure ball sex toys should be worn. This will prove to be easier to hold in without them dropping out. Materials like plastic and Cyberskin coated plastic at a diameter of about 1 1/2 to 2 inches should also be used for first timers. Start with this size and material, and then after approximately 2 weeks, move to a smaller diameter and a heavier material. As you build up your muscles, you will eventually be able to hold in 1/2 inch diameter balls made from materials like a heavy metal. If you attempt to jump right into metal balls, they will most certainly fall out. This is not a good idea to try if you are going out to the shop; how embarrassing would it be if you sneezed or coughed and a small metal ball rolls down your pant leg and across the floor?


As silly as it seems, a great way to remove pleasure balls that are not connected by a string is simply by coughing, sneezing or jumping up and down! This will let them drop out of you, and then you can wash them off.


A great new twist they have done to make pleasure balls that much more pleasurable is making them duo-tone. These duo-tone balls are large, hollow balls, usually made from plastic with a smaller, usually metal, weighted ball inside. This allows the balls to vibrate on their own, so it’s like having a wireless, no batteries required vibrating female sex toy that is private, personal and discreet! These duo tone pleasure balls are very popular amongst women, beginners and experts alike.


The duo-tone pleasure balls are used more for sexual stimulation then vaginal exercise. These sex toys vibrate on their own by your movements. As you walk, the smaller balls move inside the larger balls and massage the inner walls of your vagina, creating sexual arousal. They are adult toys not used to achieve orgasm but to excite the sexual response and get you in the mood for sex.

What to Say and Not to Say in Bed.

During foreplay, men say some things that women just don’t want to hear. The following article has some advice on what to say - and what NOT to say while enjoying intimacy of any kind with a woman.

1.) “Do you like how that feels?” - don’t say that.
When you as this you are obvious looking for a truthful response, but when you are totally missing her clit and rubbing left of her pussy lip while you look at her with a boyish smile and lots of eagerness in your eyes - do you really think she’s going to tell you truth at this tine? Of course not, she will say yes no matter what you’re doing!
Women don’t like to disappoint you or to crush your ego and women know how sensitive a man’s ego is. They will lie to you and pretend that it feels good instead of crushing your sexual emotions with the harsh truth.
This is what you should say that will get the best response:

2.) “Guide my fingers/tongue where you like it the most.” - do say that.
That’s how you should ask her if she like what you are doing. This way there is absolutely no rejection at all. If she likes it a little to the right, she will move your fingers over to the spot she wants. You can know exactly the pressure when she presses or lightly puts your fingers on her hot spot.

3.) “My old girlfriend liked anal, maybe you will too” - don’t say that.
This line could be used in so many ways, regardless of what you’re trying to get her to do, never ever compare or even mention another girl. EVER. She doesn’t care and doesn’t want to hear it. So what is your ex fell in love with you because you showed her the best an anal sex pleasure? She does not car and in fact, it will make her damn jealous that you are thinking of another woman whole fooling around with her. This will be exactly what she thinks so don’t say that.

4.) “I read an article in am magazine about anal sex, maybe you’ll like to try” - do say that.
By saying this, you’re referring to a magazine article that you read, This shows her that you’re making conscious effort to be great lover. You are doing your research and you wan to please her so she will be more accepting of your ideas. If she asks what magazine, say Maxim. Don’t ever say playboy because this will show a jealous response, Maxim is not as bad as playboy and women know well that there are really good articles about sex so a maxim reader is usually a good lover.

Try changing these simple sentences and see what sort of response you’ll get. She may be more open to your kinky ideas and will be happier with you in bed and remember when she’s happy, you’re happy!